The truth of the
matter is, relationships are very hard and very complex to maintain in today’s
world, especially when one goes into a particular relationship not knowing what
they want. Others have their own ulterior motives that sometime work for their
advantage, but at times do the most unwanted damage.
It’s good to be in a
relationship that is complex with growth and fun loving. However, if a
relationship that is doomed from the start, one will never find peace of mind
and heart because it will be an enduring struggle from its initiation, until
its destined breakup.
When you go into a
relationship with an individual that is emotionally unstable, and has a number
of unwanted past and present ghosts in their closet, your fate in the
relationship is enveloped, sealed and delivered like a forecasted Tsunami, only
to arrive at the wrong time.
Regrettably, in a
relationship your partner will never be the perfect person that you’ve always wished
for, notwithstanding the emotional and physical appeasement that one tables
without guard or caution for the sake of being in love and being loved. Your
partner can never be the Mister Right or the Miss Right, and can never give you
the right needs and wants when you require them, as much as you can never be at
a particular point in time.
It’s what we do in our
relationships that makes us the right person for the person we are with at that
particular juncture.
A self-imposed
emotional and physical degradation is initiated through not knowing what one
wants and needs in their particular
relationships, more especially, a loving relationship. When you go into a
serious relationship not knowing what direction you want that ‘relationship’ to
take you or carry you, your moral fibre will be tattered by the confines and confusion
of indecision.
Indecision leads one to
dilly-dally between a true love: one that offers safety and shelter, warmth,
good sex, a progressive conversation and stability. With a seemingly promising
heated love relational, that doesn’t provide the essentials of a grounded
relationship with stability.
One needs to be committal
and be grounded to one partner, to finding a transcending-love that aims for real
growth and stability to alleviate relationship strife and emotional storm of
numerous partners, and unwanted sexual activity.
The truth of the
matter is, loving relationships do matter. However, what matters the most is:
Are you the right matter in that loving relationship?
WORD TO A NEW RELATIONSHIP
MATTER REVOLUTION
