Saturday, March 1, 2014

A SOCIALLY BLINDED ATTITUDE

In a socially blinded country, people who are ladled to destroy other people’s lives, are blinded by their individualistic ideals, filled with misdirected extremist implementations.

Most of the time, such misdirected extremist implementations, is propaganda that dogmatise extreme dislike in one’s ideals, belief and ways of living. Hence, people who are deemed to be social misfits, are those who do not conform to a particular, popular way-of-living.

People who are ‘nonconformists’ in their way-of-living, are often perceived as abnormal, in contrast to what is  in contrary lifestyle trendy, or culturally, collectively acceptable.

In our society there is a cluster of idealists who band together to belittle and alienate individuals who are nonconformists to their way-of- living and ethical beliefs.

However, the dilemma in these groupings, is what the cluster is propagating as ‘truth’ and ‘acceptable way-of-living’.

If you drink a pill and that pill makes you feel good, it is not a guarantee that the same pill will make the next person that drinks it, will also feel good*

When an individual believes that going to the ‘Busy Corner’ and believes in concerting in unsolicited sexual swinging relations. It doesn’t mean that the person that goes to church or stays indoors when that person is ‘busy cornering’ their lesser of a person to them.

That does not make you more ‘socially’ accepted and them ‘social blinded’ unacceptable or antisocial. Just as being a swinger doesn’t make you more clever, than that dull Johnny that doesn’t play a lot.

Extreme dislike in one’s ideals: A non-drinker will be labelled a ‘social misfit’ by believing in their teetotalism in contrast with their believes. A scholar will be branded as such for being a scholar. A straight man will be called Gay for being both a scholar and teetotaller. What is a social norm, will be a social abnormality to those who gang up together and brand social normality as ‘Beastly’, ‘Antisocial’ and  ‘Evil’ *

An individual’s sexual orientation, is private, a choice or hereditary condition. Whether you are a homosexual, bisexual or heterosexual, that is your choice, or hereditary condition and your business.

However, that does not give you the right to tell or force another individual to be what you are, when feel unbecoming in their choice or  hereditary condition. 

Extremist implementations are the ones that lead an individual to be ‘anti-social’ and breed ‘alienation’.  

An Anti-Social attitude needs a ‘mirror image’ of themselves, they need ‘control’, they need ‘power’ and  they need ‘praise’ in whatever way possible. And when that doesn’t happen the seemingly social becomes a killer to feed their narcissistic need* 

An Anti-Social individual breeds hate to win favour.

Like the Pastor and Father that lives down the road.......

WORD TO SOCIAL ACCEPTANCE REVOLUTION

Linda Sakazi Thwala