It is every woman’s
dream to be swapped away from their feet and carried to a life made of dreams.
However, a question needs to be asked: At what cost does that life come into
fruition?
The biggest reason why some women go into the
hands of an abuser or a liar, is plainly clear, and that is , they don’t want a
man that tells it like it is.
It is a humbling
feeling to willow in a dream that presents no troubles, and offers an escapism from
the reality and hustles that life proffer.
The truth offers no
escapism in anything that you do in life. On the contrary, it is perhaps the
truth that leads to a number of man, who are liars to their spouses, to abscond
from their responsibilities of fatherhood, after the lie has ran its
course.
An example of this is
- the widespread Global Economic problems that have limited the pockets of many
men, as well as many women, have damped many relationship that were formed
under a fail façade of mutual understand, and love.
No woman wants to hear
their man telling them that “Baby we have no money.” Why?
The answer is simple: It presents the truth about their social status – no
money. Most women these days, as compared to days of the “Struggle” opt to
walkout of their relationships, find another man, rather than share what they
have with their man in the relationship.
It is travesty!
However, an everyday real travesty. It is as if, men are buying women for their
affection. It don’t matter whether the man is good to the woman or not. You
tell the truth! You are gone!
There is a false
notion in our social circles that ‘a woman with wealth and influence
intimidates man hence man don’t want such women’. No, the truth is – such women
do not want to hear a man telling them they financial worth less, than they are. They’ll want the sex, but not the
relationship. Hell, they’ll even pay you for it. Relationship? No!
This is the same
reason why fifteen (15) broke women go into a relation with one wealthy man. He
intimidates them, so they fake the love and the sex to get financial support.
They lie. He lies.
The truth is – in
today’s society the truth counts for nothing, consequently the uncanny increase
to malevolent tendencies, and gender based violence in the bedroom, household,
and eventually in our streets.
There can never be a
humble conveyance between the sexes when there is a humongous lie revolving in
the mist. Society has become a place of tit-for-tat. Where no one cares who is
tat, or who is tat.
A man that tells it like it is and does what
he says, has no place in our society anymore.
Reality bites: Women
see themselves as men and they want to stripe men of their manhood.
When you, as an
individual commit to a relationship, commit to the truth of the relationship,
neither to the lie you want to hear, nor the false dream you want to live in.
Kwanele, Enough is
Enough!
WORD TO THE TRUTH IS
ENOUGH REVOLUTION
Linda Sakazi Thwala
