THE NEED TO HEAL IN SELF

It is a realistic principle that a human individual condition needs others to survive, and exalt the joys of life by every means, ways practicable and imaginable. In healing ourselves, a commonality in how we perceive certain realistic nuances, and in upholding a united front in our pursuit, attaining and maintain reasonable, content growth, through maturity and transcendent in love. And through the understanding that in all traumatic and tragic missteps in our easy and difficult strolls in life, we stoke up different experiences and realities that pulls each one of us away from the commonality goal of a united front, distinctively setting each individual apart from the other individual – emotional needs and wants.

Before applying healing processes, an individual needs to acknowledge what has been dented; which specific area needs attention and healing; whether Emotional, Mental or Physical. One has to be willing to heal or be healed, after a dented area is recognized and after accepting their emotional deficiency or shortcomings.

Injury caused by others, or self inflicted is injury to the Self. As a result, injury to the Self fragments the psychological makeup of any individual, which at times defrauds one of their physical existence. When an individual is hurting, healing seems a daunting task because, emotional scars darken ones inner Self and ones subsistence in its entirety.

Emotional deficiency, is your emotional deprivation formed by the inability to deal with traumatic occurrences or lacking support and inner strength to deal with emotionally and mentally overpowering situations. In healing we need support from others through their physical presence and conversations; however in healing an individual is their own ultimate enemy – as noted, through a state of self-denial and self-loathing.

To initialize healing processes we first need to heal in Self. Trauma of any kind, is cause for one to loathe their inner Self, themselves, others and despise their own surroundings, which makes it extremely difficult for one to see light at the end of the tunnel. To heal in Self, others may offer verbal inferences on how one should take steps towards mending their own emotional and mental deficiencies, the end result being uttered suggestions through uplifting conversations. No one can take an individual to a place of healing, unless that individual is willing to walk that road to a healing place. To mend the Self starts with restoring ones inner elusive nuances, and resolves, by the same individual that is suffering.

In every individual there is an inner voice that drives your core. The inner voice is the center of your temple and who you are deeply. It is the inner voice that needs to be transcended from what is known as darkness to a better alternative known as light. The dark side of the voice reflects negatively in everything and everyone; then there is the light side of the voice, which reflects everything that is positive and drives your intuitive Self – where healing must begin.

The intuitive Self or Inner Positive Self has the strength to enable an individual to apply self-resilience in every calamitous trauma that they come across. True healing starts with attentively listening to your authentic intuitive voice, Self; to enable you to gain inner strength and radiate that positive energy towards an environment or individual that has faltered your emotions, and physic.

A psychological retrospection and introspection of an individual through counseling sessions, can help digress steps of an individual journeying towards a dark rough verge, preventing a probable fall to their premature, hopeless, self-loathing, self-denying death. The intuitive Self begins with listening to the inner voice, thus taking the right choices that one comes across to, meaning listening to the positive and not the negative to permit the right holistic path to healing – emotionally, mentally and physically.

WORD TO A NEW PROCESS OF HEALING REVOLUTION

By Linda Sakazi Thwala