THAT WOMAN, WHO CRIES WOLF

Beware of that woman who cries wolf. A woman that is a verbal and emotional abuser then do the community rounds claiming that they are being abused. 

 

The woman who cries wolf, is a claimer of being a victim of abuse. She knows that men are considered as chronic abusers - she acts out, she screams, she swears, she hails verbal and emotional abuse towards their victim, that is ‘male’ and poke prick provoke a reaction, then claims to be a victim. 

In my case, it’s my older sister who loves to cry wolf. She is a year older than I -  however in between our spats, she always imagines and claim that she is much, much older than actually known she is. As siblings we grew up side by side, differentiated by our sexes, behaviour and thought process.  

She has always seen me as her competitor, which is not a bad thing with other siblings, however in this case, the competitiveness between my ‘year older’ sister and I (who claims she is much, much older), has gone from a childish grudge not a place of ridiculous comparisons, blame shifting, spats and physical fights. 

One  would be ashamed and regretful of getting into a physical fight with a woman. With the kind of jealousy that my sister has, physical fights can never be avoided. Why?

Firstly, I am male and she is female. As children she has always needed attention at my expense, I did not mind. Secondly, as a brother I do not feature in anything personal that she does, unless she is attacked by a guy, or being crushed by a bus. Then. Only then, can Mister Hero spring into action.

Thirdly, I can never sleep with my own sister and bare children with her. Unless, it happens in an extreme case of, ‘we  did not know that we were related’. 

One can never air such dirty laundry in the public eye, however in this case, it must be aired because, I am accused of baring four children with this woman, who is my biological sister, who grew up next to me, and who has the ability to create her own path in life. 

Now in my case,  I have this sister who doesn’t want me to succeed as a brother. I don’t know, what did I do to deserve such a sister, but one thing I know - I can never be something my siblings want me to be. I can never be Gay when it suits my sibling, when in fact I love women; I can never be a father to children I did not bare with my sister; I can never stop my dreams and ambitions because my sibling is jealous; I can never vent my anger with my fists, when I have the advantage of a pen.....

A woman that is a verbal and emotional abuser then do the community rounds claiming that they are being abused.

I don’t have children, although i would love to have them, two in fact but I haven’t met the mother of my children yet, however that does mean I’m less of a human because of that.  And that doesn’t mean everything I do belongs to my sister and her children. It all belongs to me and my future wife.

Beware of the woman who cries wolf, but ain’t no wolf!

WORD TO THE WOLF PACK REVOLUTION 

Linda Sakazi Thwala

WOMAN…..WHAT TRUTH?

Women have a problem with hearing the truth. A majority of women do not want to hear the truth and that is a divine fact.  

It is every woman’s dream to be swapped away from their feet and carried to a life made of dreams. However, a question needs to be asked: At what cost does that life come into fruition? 

The  biggest reason why some women go into the hands of an abuser or a liar, is plainly clear, and that is , they don’t want a man that tells it like it is.

It is a humbling feeling to willow in a dream that presents no troubles, and offers an escapism from the reality and hustles that life proffer.

The truth offers no escapism in anything that you do in life. On the contrary, it is perhaps the truth that leads to a number of man, who are liars to their spouses, to abscond from their responsibilities of fatherhood, after the lie has ran its course. 

An example of this is - the widespread Global Economic problems that have limited the pockets of many men, as well as many women, have damped many relationship that were formed under a fail façade of mutual understand, and love.

No woman wants to hear their man telling them that “Baby we have no money.”   Why? The answer is simple: It presents the truth about their social status – no money. Most women these days, as compared to days of the “Struggle” opt to walkout of their relationships, find another man, rather than share what they have with their man in the relationship.

It is travesty! However, an everyday real travesty. It is as if, men are buying women for their affection. It don’t matter whether the man is good to the woman or not. You tell the truth! You are gone!     

There is a false notion in our social circles that ‘a woman with wealth and influence intimidates man hence man don’t want such women’. No, the truth is – such women do not want to hear a man telling them they financial worth less, than they are.  They’ll want the sex, but not the relationship. Hell, they’ll even pay you for it. Relationship? No!

This is the same reason why fifteen (15) broke women go into a relation with one wealthy man. He intimidates them, so they fake the love and the sex to get financial support. They lie. He lies.

The truth is – in today’s society the truth counts for nothing, consequently the uncanny increase to malevolent tendencies, and gender based violence in the bedroom, household, and eventually in our streets.

There can never be a humble conveyance between the sexes when there is a humongous lie revolving in the mist. Society has become a place of tit-for-tat. Where no one cares who is tat, or who is tat. 

 A man that tells it like it is and does what he says, has no place in our society anymore.

Reality bites: Women see themselves as men and they want to stripe men of their manhood.   

When you, as an individual commit to a relationship, commit to the truth of the relationship, neither to the lie you want to hear, nor the false dream you want to live in.    

Kwanele, Enough is Enough!

WORD TO THE TRUTH IS ENOUGH REVOLUTION

Linda Sakazi Thwala

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