THAT WOMAN, WHO CRIES WOLF

Beware of that woman who cries wolf. A woman that is a verbal and emotional abuser then do the community rounds claiming that they are being abused. 

 

The woman who cries wolf, is a claimer of being a victim of abuse. She knows that men are considered as chronic abusers - she acts out, she screams, she swears, she hails verbal and emotional abuse towards their victim, that is ‘male’ and poke prick provoke a reaction, then claims to be a victim. 

In my case, it’s my older sister who loves to cry wolf. She is a year older than I -  however in between our spats, she always imagines and claim that she is much, much older than actually known she is. As siblings we grew up side by side, differentiated by our sexes, behaviour and thought process.  

She has always seen me as her competitor, which is not a bad thing with other siblings, however in this case, the competitiveness between my ‘year older’ sister and I (who claims she is much, much older), has gone from a childish grudge not a place of ridiculous comparisons, blame shifting, spats and physical fights. 

One  would be ashamed and regretful of getting into a physical fight with a woman. With the kind of jealousy that my sister has, physical fights can never be avoided. Why?

Firstly, I am male and she is female. As children she has always needed attention at my expense, I did not mind. Secondly, as a brother I do not feature in anything personal that she does, unless she is attacked by a guy, or being crushed by a bus. Then. Only then, can Mister Hero spring into action.

Thirdly, I can never sleep with my own sister and bare children with her. Unless, it happens in an extreme case of, ‘we  did not know that we were related’. 

One can never air such dirty laundry in the public eye, however in this case, it must be aired because, I am accused of baring four children with this woman, who is my biological sister, who grew up next to me, and who has the ability to create her own path in life. 

Now in my case,  I have this sister who doesn’t want me to succeed as a brother. I don’t know, what did I do to deserve such a sister, but one thing I know - I can never be something my siblings want me to be. I can never be Gay when it suits my sibling, when in fact I love women; I can never be a father to children I did not bare with my sister; I can never stop my dreams and ambitions because my sibling is jealous; I can never vent my anger with my fists, when I have the advantage of a pen.....

A woman that is a verbal and emotional abuser then do the community rounds claiming that they are being abused.

I don’t have children, although i would love to have them, two in fact but I haven’t met the mother of my children yet, however that does mean I’m less of a human because of that.  And that doesn’t mean everything I do belongs to my sister and her children. It all belongs to me and my future wife.

Beware of the woman who cries wolf, but ain’t no wolf!

WORD TO THE WOLF PACK REVOLUTION 

Linda Sakazi Thwala