When a culture of
abuse is intentionally instilled, by parents who lack the values of discipline,
within a household - it creates an unimpressionable environment that aims to
destroy the minds and dreams of those who need guidance, and assurance towards
their future.
When a parent’s
intentions are aimed at destroying the lives of the children, without cushion,
and reprimanding accountability, there is no hope in the family and lives of
those children.
At times when a parent
is frustrated and is put under strenuous mental, emotional pressure, certain
decisions made for the wellbeing, of their
family and their children can be misconstrued, confusing and wrongly implemented.
Purposefully implementing
a behavioural system, or a prometheus commitment that is misleadingly courteous,
and favours one child from the other child/children, and intentionally creating
an atmosphere that is rude and cruel for the other child/children – is one of
the major parenting inaccuracy that needs to be dealt with in many households
and parenting skills.
In countless Counselling
sessions and discussions, with couples, parents and friends who are parents – preferential
treatment, ‘favouritism’ is a key concern within the family framework, with
single parents and presence of both parents.
Favouritism, has
created a division in many households and families that has led to recurring
emotional, verbal and physical abuse for decades.
Parenting and implementing
good behavioural skills are reciprocal - being bias in conversational dealings
with your children, and in reprimanding skills can and will lead to public embarrassments,
misdirected anger and vast polarity between a child and their parent, as well
as a child and their siblings.
It is an instinctive
thing to love, nurture and protect your children as a parent (s) However,
divided attention and divided love, can sway towards one child/children being ‘favoured’
more than another child/children are - drifting the family apart.
WORD TO THE INTENTIONAL
DIVISION REVOLUTION
Linda Sakazi Thwala
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