As human beings we settle for
what we perceive is the ‘right partner’ because we think, or know that we can sustain
the emotional intonations that will not wipe out the initial attraction that
brought us together as friends, lovers and life partners.
A conversation with a
friend about a perfect partner, not settling for less, took a dimensional fascination
on loving relationships.
Can one attain a love interest
with a ‘perfect’ partner?
You’ll hear folks who
were emotionally burnt lamenting: “I won’t settle for less anymore, I’m looking
for a complete package.”
Given a humanly conditional
condition, that we humans find ourselves in _ the rise and fall of everyday
life, the changing of human nature and emotions_ What is really less in a
relationship? Does settling for less mean, you, yourself are not any lesser
than the person that altered your perception of love and relationships? Is less
non-human, and can less be attributed to animalistic behaviour? What is less?
Within the known erroneous
ways of all human beings. Can an individual say: “I am looking for a complete
package?” Is there a complete package? Is there perfection in an individual?
The myth of a complete
package still lingers on, on the human condition, even after eons of existence,
chronicles, bearing witness to loving relational that were firstly thought of
as perfect partnership, only to crumble when it’s least expected.
Those that do find a
heavenly made union of everlasting attraction and camaraderie – can never
explain it to anyone, but is only known by the precondition that they
themselves cannot explain. Yet, it can be deemed as ‘perfect’ love, for we all
know that perfection lies in the eyes of the beholder.
I saw such a couple
once, and it was neither Romeo nor Julies, but my eyes saw what they saw but, not
perfection – just two people who were madly in love.
The rise and fall of
everyday life brings a sustain truth to us as human being. A truth that we are
not invincible.
In the confines of
pleasure. In the confines of amble. In the confines of breath – the conditional
condition, in a loving relationship lie with those that can endeavour their circumstance
of what it means to be together: the expectations, the disappointments, the
honesty, the half-truths, the measure of their loyalty to each other, the give, and the take*
I am not an expert in
love and in loving relationships, but I know one thing – no one is perfect in
this world.
Work with your
package*
WORD TO A PACKAGE DEAL
PARTNER REVOLUTION
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