AN ORDINARY SOUTH AFRICAN, LIVING IN EXTRAORDINARY TIMES

In the face of this gregarious, communist-capitalist-social alliance, political dillydallying order, one wonders about the psychosomatic well-being of ordinary South Africans living in such challenging, uncomforting, extraordinary times – our streets amass by monthly dole queues; children grant queues; police brutality; road/freeway toll-fees; transportation hikes; disgruntled workers marching for a better percentage; global austerity measures, corrupt officials; demented religious-renegades; xenophobia and sick homophobias. Where are all these unnecessary scandalously filled activities taking us, as a nation?

If the African National Congress (ANC) as a ruling party gets its way – ordinary South Africans might wake up one of these days without the right to speak their minds on corruption, or reporting private and public maladministration.

The Secrecy  Bill or Protection of Information Bill ( to be renamed: Protection of State Information Bill), poses the biggest threat in our egalitarian state.  Can you imagine government officials guffawing in the faces of voters about the things they do unbeknown to the general public, to enrich themselves or incurring state assets to advance their own interests, without legal reprimand?  

The channelling of power in these extraordinary times, which aims to curtailing the right to classify information to the Defence Force, the Police and Intelligence Services, such as the Hawks, “with a provision for other departments to apply to classify information on the grounds of national security” – is surely a ploy for the ruling party to cease and suppress efforts of any opposition in its incumbency, therefore prolonging its governing hand indefinitely.  

An ordinary South African and voter will be duped, mainly due to the reason that  the Defence Force, the Police and Intelligence Services ( National Intelligence Agency, abbreviated as NIA), are all controlled and led by ANC appointed representatives. The information that will be selectively filtered through to the general public will be permeated to the purpose of manipulating, dictating, and blinding mother justice, and all its citizenry to what is really going on behind closed doors of bureaucratic offices.  Where is the transparency in all of this?     

A loop-hole was inconveniently discovered during Thabo Mbeki and Jacob Zuma’s  tint debacle that the information put forward to the National Prosecution Authority (NPA) cannot be utilized as  the cellphone tapings cannot hold up in court as circumstantial evidence due the vagueness of legislation regarding “tapped information” and “cellphone number/owner identification”. New cards were dealt – RICA came into effect, but the perpetrators of the arms deal debacle still walk-tall in all government sectors.    

It is written in the cards that South Africa stands to become one of the greatest, powerful nations in the world, when power sharing squabbles, standards of our infrastructure in every municipality, cost of living and our education system are institutionalised properly.       

Surely, with the secrecy bill that’s threateningly looming if and when constitutionalised;  the ruling party will see it fit to eliminate any person or group that stands critically in opposition to its administrative structures, governing systems and implementation methods -  evading public interest.

Any patriotic South African will argue that National Security should be taken as the pinnacle defence mechanism of South African governing structures, and its Constitution, however with corruption running rampant amongst the ruling party’s leaders, subordinates and sub-sectors. Passing a bill that supports curtailing journalists, and members of the public from probing and perusing crucial documents that will eradicate corruption - condemning patriotic South Africans to imprisonment for protecting the rights of ordinary citizenry. Then what was the aim of fighting for our democracy?            

In these egalitarian times, as an ordinary South African living in extraordinary state of affairs; the youthful leader chanting political revolutionary nationalisation dogma, growth-path debates and disenfranchised corrupt politicians secretly dodging palatial correctional places.  One can clearly see the remnants of greedy public officials in the psychosomatic attitudes of ordinary citizens.

WORD TO A NEW EXTRA EXTRAORDINARY REVOLUTION

By Linda Sakazi Thwala

STRUTTING HABIT EN ROUTE TO PSYCHOSIS

Habitual societal stratification does determine the emotional route or mindset formulation that will create an individual’s persona – perspective upon other individuals, surroundings and society, in its entirety.  Habitual existence governs normal, and extraordinary obscene habits.    

It is said that human-beings are “habitual beings”. However, can some of our habits conscientiously debate the simplicity in our quest to self-annihilate, when our dominoes of being are uncompromisingly striated to tip pressingly against our ill-begotten aspirations.

Take a thief for instance: is a thief a thief because he/she decided to be a thief after having dreamt about being a thief; or is a thief a thief because he/she had a ‘calling’ to be a thief – a bad habit to have. No! Had thieving been a ‘calling’ no one would get caught doing the thieving thing anyway. It’s a calling! However in society there are people who have a certain calling for certain faculties in the strata of life that are caught thieving, therefore are regrettably pronounced “thieves”- kleptomaniacs.   

The process of being a criminal element or thief is rooted in the abnormal habitual habits, when an ordinary being is injected into unusual circumstances, at very uncompromising times, which gradually creates a monster inside them – psychopathic tendency.

A person that insistently do abnormal things to circumvent the ordinary, or counter the humanistic ethical part in their organic existence, making them think that they are invincible to everything and everyone in their ill-begotten quest. This leads to an individual falling into extraordinary obscene habits that will eventually be abstract to what their persona is. An ill-disposed persona that aims to convert everything and everyone in its paths to complement who they are, no matter what – psychopathic tendency.          

People are “habitual beings”, evidently it is normal for a constrained individual to break free from a person or system that tries to restrain their habitualness. It is human nature to unshackle the demoralising shackles of a bully - this is a realistic reoccurring fact. It is in light of this that an abusive hand in its mission to control its environment falls into a bad habit of violently commanding and gesticulating its preemptive power over the supposedly weak dim-witted hand.      

                

The crude part about falling into any habit, whether good or bad, is that when a habit takes over, the behaviour-ensnared individuals finds themselves on an eclectic addictive hypnotic self-observed, self-annihilation state. It is in this state that individuals lose themselves and their mental-fortitude in the mysterious dimness of a raging habit.

There is an inflexible hitching fecundity in individual’s ghastly habits that beckons their morbid psychosis, disjointing the life that they lead into the tumultuous confines of mental insanity. Inside these confines lays a psychopathic killer, strutting normality and uncontrollable obsession.       

WORD TO A NEW HABITUAL PERSONA REVOLUTION

By Linda Sakazi Thwala 

http://www.facebook.com/SAKAZI

THE LIES WE TELL, SECRETS WE KEEP…..

A secret, is a tough thing to keep, more especially if that concealed truth has a potent, harmful element in the path of the bearer. Individuals have the valour of doing atrocious deeds which their Karma is forcefully against. However, because they are driven by gluttony, anger, pride and sloth; their only way of surviving is to do the deed and conceal the unseen, unheard and unknown.

What drives an individual to keep secrets? Some people start of with a little white-lie, which leads to another little white-lie, creating a bunch of little white-lies, forming a mental and spiritual depravity of dark spots of lies that end up being a big dark lie in their lives.  

People who start of with little white lies, are prone to find some form of earthly unhealthy appeasement to their suffering, due to the immensity of guilt that is eating away at their souls. Others learn to overcome this destructive addiction of telling lies, however others timely find liberation in constantly perpetuating the pattern of lying without reprimand – giving way to even more deeper secrets.  

We find ourselves telling  a lie without knowing the effect that lie will lead to. We find ourselves trying to alter the cause of our lying by covering up that lie with another, thus a formulation of secrets from an evil concatenation that leads one to doing the undoable things unto others.  We find ourselves keeping secrets.

The effects of keeping a deep dark secret many be long winding, with that secret blinding the bearer’s perception on the reality of the matter either emotionally, physically or mentally.       

Take for example a woman who’s deeply in love with a man that doesn’t even notice her at work. She tries to gain that man’s attention by playing flirtatious games with him – he still doesn’t notice. She starts following the man to every place he goes to during lunchtime and after work, eventually his home – he pays no attention. She calls him up, he waves her off, she keeps trying, he changes his number. She sees him with his true love, she gets jealous. His love disappears without a trace. He has no clue, she has a secret.     

Someone once told me that nothing stays hidden forever, and I mentioned that there are people out there that take their deepest darkest secrets to the grave, and those barren secrets shall remain unseen, unheard and unknown to those they held dear.

      

No one is made by lies, and the sad truth about those who are made by those little white-lie, end up telling a bigger destructive lie, that will eventually catch-up with them, either now or later. It’s in the soul not your sole!

WORD TO A NEW HONEST LIVING REVOLUTION

By Linda Sakazi Thwala

"The glory of friendship is not the outstretched hand, nor the kindly smile, nor the joy of companionship, it is the spiritual inspiration that comes to one when you discover that someone else believes in you and is willing to trust you with a friendship"  

Ralph Waldo Emerson

TRANSCENDING ATTITUDE TOWARDS SEXUAL ACCEPTANCE

Not that it’s anybody’s business, however there are individuals in our social order that believe that people are suppose to be judge by the amount of people that they bed or sleep with. Some even go as far as judging people walking in the streets as to what type of sexual preference, they are inclined to fall under – Lesbians, Gay, Straight or Bisexual, without knowing anything about them.

This mental perverted social happening has been going on for ages, where women would fall victim to men who distinguish them as mere sexual objects to please their sexual fantasies and sexual edges. Women, were and still are an easy target to such perverted male attitudes toward women.  To this day, young girls are forced to marry older men when they are suppose to attend school and further their education – “Ukuthwala”.   

Take the rape justification that’s been used against Lesbians around South Africa – Corrective Rape. When someone is being raped, there is nothing corrective in the darkness of forcing that someone to spread their legs,  when being gagged, trying to scream for help - when their genetic makeup attracts them to other women of a similar nature and not men.

The troubling part about this, is that there are ‘face-clipped’ individuals who believe that when they don’t see any woman or man walking in the streets with a person of the opposite sex or interacting with a person of the opposite sex openly, publicly, then that person must have some form of handicap in their loin area that prohibit them to perform sexual acts with the opposite sex.
  

Is it right for one to take a glimpse at any individual and form a premise about their sexual affairs, whether be it Lesbian, Gay, Straight or Bisexual? Is it right for one to take a decision to alter any individual’s sexual genetic order preference, by force or form of corrective rape?

Now, the most disturbing flip-of-the-coin about Gay and Lesbian folk  is, knowing that there are people who understand and accept their sexual genetic makeup, without being Gay or Lesbian themselves. They want to impose what comes naturally to them, to people who are hereditarily heterosexual, but have no qualms with sharing, interacting or associating with them. It is called “Transcending Attitude Towards Acceptance”.  

With the difficulty that the world has with the strain of the pandemic of HIV/Aids, people who commit such dehumanising acts, do not have a clue on the iniquity and consequences they will have in creating an imbalance in our society. Clearly these ‘face-clipped’ individuals do not see the whole picture.       

The social order around the world is a multifaceted plethora of different personalities, different mindsets, different attitudes and different genetic makeup, as a result different sexual preferences. However being matured about people, is being able to transcend your attitude towards accepting others for who and what they are – with of cause eradicating abuse in every manner.

Do not be a pervert that creates sexual conclusions about people you’ve never had sex with. At any rate, a society that keep on looking at what goes on in other people’s crouches makes for a sick society.    

WORD TO A NEW SEXUAL ACCEPTANCE REVOLUTION

By Linda Sakazi Thwala    

   

http://www.facebook.com/SAKAZI

MOTHERS THAT ABHOR THEIR OWN

Believe it or not, there are mothers out there who think less of their own children in this world. The hatred is rooted from neglect; no not necessarily from their own parents’ neglect but from unmitigated abandonment from their fathers.

Some children who grow up without their fathers, grow up with a perception that men are a breed of species that are invisible from their lives, besides the uncle or grandfather that untimely pitch in whenever they want to. Hence everything they aspire to have: nurture, love, protection, education and a warm meal every dinner time, will be provided for by their never shaken mother.

However, some mothers never fall victim to post-natal depression but, emit to a much destructive form of depression – mid life crisis. This is when a mother reaches a stage in their middle years of their life and realise that they still want to be little girls, dress up like their own teenage girls and go gallivanting with different men, in the name of fun, forgetting their children’s emotional and mental well being. An unhealthy maternal regress which creates a drift between a mother and her children.        

Mothers are an important foundation to a child’s well being, therefore if a mother fails her own child or children by assuming and emulating childish behavior, just because they have reached a phase in their life where they think that they need a reprieve from their motherly duties. A menopausal dilemma, or not? Some mothers fall into this trap, and create a circle of abuse in their households.

When there is a relationship breakdown between a mother and his child/children’s father the loathing amongst them can burn their child/children's attitude towards life, and can make the mother of the child loathe the very image that was procreated with love. Seemingly forging a space in a woman's heart to get rid of this child/children as soon as possible.        

When this happens an unnecessary verbal, and at times physical altercation between the girlish mother and their teenage or adult child/children leads to the huge family breakdown in many ways than one, which in most cases initiates a lifelong emotional struggle. 

Mother who are jammed in such an emotional imbalance are most liable to spread rumours about their own child/children; be verbally abusive; throw tantrums and call the police without a viable reason; be financially unwilling and nonsupport to their child/children’s needs. Worst scenario – disappear in their child/children’s life.   

Mothers who think less of their child/children, do not know the joy and love that children who are well taken care of and brought up with respect, education – do not know the intuitive wisdom of loving your won and the holistic rewards one will be blanketed when they are wrinkled, frail and need loving nurturing aide.

WORD TO A NEW MOTHERLY LOVE REVOLUTION 

By Linda Sakazi Thwala

THE SELF AND RESPECT

When the self carries its self with respect, it is reflected with perpetual respect, love, humility and honour, from every corner of the universe. Respect is love of, if not thee most enduring pillars of self-love, and self-pride.  It is from this pillar of self-love: respect, that people form high expertise and opinion about another person, which  can be positive or negative.

In today’s social cohesion, people are respected for various kinds of interpersonal relations, whether business related or intimate relationships. However some of these associations are based on a negative pillar of respect – arrogance.

Arrogance is a poison to the self, which leads to a person thinking that they are superior to others in all likely ways in life, therefore no one else matters by crook or trait. Arrogance, in most junctures, leads individuals to committing unremitting crimes against other individuals, nations and humanity. An example would be heads-of-states who believe that because, they were given a mandate to guide their nations, now they have the right to manipulate power and corrupt the whole governing system; which of cause forcibly lead to many of these heads-of-states, facing crimes against humanity.

In many homes around the world, you find that adults are disrespected by their own conceited children. Children who lack, self-love and self-respect - no, not by any means that their parents don’t have respect. It’s the failure to instil respect and self-love that makes children unruly and conceited towards others, which brings an abusive game and shame within the household. Creating an unrelenting circle of abuse of children-to-adults that will filter into our society.

The positive side of respect creates a well rounded individual, that aims to build themselves and others without humiliating, disrespecting or dehumanizing others. Which is the positive filled with all the aspects of self-transcending-love; self-esteem, self-worth, self-consistency, self-love and self-respect.

On the other hand, there is a fine line between narcissism and self-transcending-love which affect the three essentials of self - Mental Exercise, Emotional Exercise, and Physical Exercise. A conceited individual starts off with a decorous façade of success, when in reality they are headed for a humongous calamity overflowing with corruption. In opposition to conceit - an individual with respect starts on a modest path of love, hard work and charity that takes them to a life teeming with abundance and longevity.

Parents need to teach their children to have respect for them, for their household, for themselves and for other people.  A lesson that perpetual respect, love, humility and honour brings endless rewards in their loves, which is not shame but fame.

WORD TO A NEW SELF-RESPECT  REVOLUTION

By Linda Sakazi Thwala

“To be left alone on the tightrope of youthful unknowing is to experience the excruciating beauty of full freedom and threat of eternal indecision.”  Dr. Maya Angelou

THE AIM OF RELIGION IN THE WORLD EMBELLISHED BY GLUTTONY

THE  FACE  OF RELIGION IS EMBELLISHED WITH GLUTTONY AND GREEDY PEOPLE WHO CLAIM  TO KNOW THE REAL CONSCIOUSNESS OF THE WORD

There is uncertainty to what religion means to us and the greater communities of our nations (humanity) in this latter day mission to faith. More and more focus is placed on acquiring material wealth, rather than reaching for the hearts of the “meek”. Many people are being doped, into assorted  religious affairs that promises eternal healing, giving endless riches to the verisimilitude leaders, however leaving many robbed of their daily essential provisions.

Around the world, especially in the African landscape, the aim of religion is obscured, with false Prophets arising out of the need to gain wealth from the needy rather than to improve the lives of those that are destitute. South Africa is one place that is filled with such occurrences of pseudo-instant-healing Pastors; who come in the form of Christian faith missionary leaders – cults, claiming the “WORD” as their weapon.  

In Johannesburg and surrounding areas, nomadic religious missionary cults are prevalent, with leaders from other countries in the African terrain. Making religion a business, filled with performances of the “WORD” and scams to make the faithful pull out their last “Rand”, their last “Dollar”, their last “Bread” hoping blessings shall be bestowed upon them, and they shall be saved from eternal damnation.

Karl Marx once cautioned, “…it is not the consciousness of men which determines their existence, but, on the contrary, it is their social existence which determines their consciousness.”

History is bedecked with people who are manufactured by their existence; people who claim that they are the chosen ones that will lead people from darkness to light, only paving the way to their extermination - using the “WORD” as their phony consciousness.

This new age uncertainty to phony wordy consciousness, coupled with greed, has marched the world into a chaotic order, and created false Prophets. Prophets who predict the end of the world; who go to hotels and lock themselves up for a whole weekend, only to wake-up to a reality that the world is still going around the sun, dawning in the east and dusking in west.

The unfortunate thing about the reality to life, is that no man on earth possesses supernatural godly powers, that enables one to bring the dead to the living, or take away a terminal disease from the terminally ill. Yes, the world does have people who can foretell the past and the future, however none of these people are Messianic in temperament and aptitude. They only aspire to be, however in so doing , do more damage.  

The truth about humanity and all its social stance, is that in the face of giving hope to the hopeless; love to the hated; healing to the beaten, and care to the needy – the face of religion is embellished with gluttony and greedy people who claim to know the real consciousness of the word. Its original purpose lost in tainted hands of humankind.

WORD TO THE NEW TRUE WORD REVOLUTION    

By Linda Sakazi Thwala    

Not a Nineties Baby, walk forged and shaped  by the tears formatted by the Gas. Dripping unto Mellow Yellows and Hippos. Shouted the unknown Mandela’s name barricaded by stones of Calvary – Kiwi, Coca Cola trucks going up in smoke; somersaulting, rolling with burning flames and blood in hand. Not a Nineties Baby! I was born in the seventies, witnessed the eighties’ uprising - Comrade! Word to the Power of Light! NELSON MANDELA, AND BANTU BIKO are my philosophy.